Since she barely began talking, my youngest has been singing. If she didn’t know the words, she would make up her own, or hum her way through the song. It (music) comes so naturally to her that she knows no other way. I don’t know when it became a “thing” for her to sing along with the radio, but she has been belting “Bohemian Rhapsody” since she was a tiny little thing in her car seat.
From “Bohemian Rhapsody”, to “Radio Ga-ga”, “We Are the Champions”, “We Will Rock You”, and plenty of the rest of the Queen catalog – she sings it all. The music and words just seem to resonate with her. I didn’t think much of it until we heard that there would be a movie based on the career of Freddie Mercury and Queen. My husband and I agreed that we’d take her to see it. We didn’t know if the story would be over her head, but we knew she’d love the soundtrack!
Both Walt and I are fans of Queen – we have their albums and love their music. Neither of us saw them in concert when Freddie was alive, though. We did go to see We Will Rock You in London while we were visiting, and even got to see both Roger Taylor (no, not OUR Roger Taylor…) and Brian May on stage for the curtain call. We were thrilled the movie was being released and couldn’t wait to go.
The movie opened this past week, and on Sunday night, we went to see it. I tend to talk about my daughter as though she is still five, but the fact is—she’s emotionally mature for a ten-year old. She is very sensitive to other people (as if all of the empathy missing from the rest of us was packed into her little body!), and I find that she even explains things to me. There is this saying about how having a child means you’re OK with your heart being outside of your own body and walking around forever. Well, this heart of hers is FAR bigger than anything I could have grown on my own.
Freddie’s story of learning how to really love the person he was, and embracing his own bravado and talent really touched her. She openly sobbed as the story of “Bohemian Rhapsody” came to light, and talked a lot with me about his struggle of learning to love himself even when he knew he was different from what his parents expected. She was completely devastated at the end of the movie as she realized just how short Freddie Mercury’s life really was, and what the AIDS epidemic meant during the 1980s. The movie is one that I suspect will stay with her forever. I would have never thought so much of the movie would reach her so deeply. After all, she’s only ten, right?
I think back to being ten myself. Although my memory is fuzzy – I was around that same age when I first heard Duran Duran. It is fair to say they not only resonated—they helped form me into the person I am. Many fans feel that way about their own experience with them, too. I don’t believe I was ever the deep thinker that my youngest is. In spite of my own lack of emotional maturity at the time, Duran Duran worked their way into my head and heart, just as Queen has done with her. It is one of those parenting moments I treasure witnessing.
As I sat watching Bohemian Rhapsody in the theater, I thought about Duran Duran. It was impossible not to, really. Today I’ve seen so many people posting about Bohemian Rhapsody, and following up by saying they want their Duran Duran movie next – I just have to wonder what that might look like. I don’t think their story is over just yet.
Duran Duran continues to inspire me in a way few other things ever have. A good example is the video for “The Edge of America”. Who knew that thirty years after its release there would be a video made that even Rolling Stone and Billboard would comment on?
I think the best is yet to come.