It is time for another v-log from yours truly and my partner-in-crime about yesterday’s Duran Duran show in Las Vegas. We figured that it would go faster to do a video blog on than a written one. It may even be more entertaining!
This v-log ended up being two videos due to unforeseen technical difficulties or really because Rhonda’s computer went into sleep mode. During these two little (don’t know why I said little…they are lengthy), we discuss Dom Brown’s stage presence, John Taylor’s fashion choices (go figure!), the good and bad with the Mandalay Bay Events Center as a venue, the awesomeness of our meet-up, why Duran Duran should never be done and more!
You might note that these two videos were completed last night or early this morning depending on how you look at it. We apologize for the sucky quality. On that note, we are off to back to California to hit the Irvine show! It’s a show day! (That said, I really wish I had a few more hours of sleep!)
One of the things I like best about being part of a fandom is the people. Of course, not everyone in a fan community is cool. Certainly, not everyone is happy or excited to see us. For the most part, though, other fans are the best! This past week gave us an opportunity to see and meet lots of great people, both at shows and at our meet ups. Duran events bring people together from all over the world.
Look at us. We don’t live anywhere near each other yet…here we are. A funny moment happened both times when we crossed the border to and from Canada. The border officer would ask how we know each other since one of us lives in Wisconsin and the other in California. We would explain how we travel to go see Duran Duran. Then, we would be allowed in without question. Apparently, that is too weird to make up!
As you all know, we had 3 meet ups on this first leg (both Chicago shows and Toronto). Each of them had their challenges but we felt all were successful. The challenge in Chicago was obvious. We held the meet ups there on the Ravinia grounds. We had to claim some space on the lawn where others were trying to set up dinners, picnics, chairs, etc. for the duration of the evening, which meant being smushed at best. Then, somehow, we had to try and explain to people exactly where we were, which wasn’t easy. We tried to have posters to advertise our location but…we had to hold them one night and had a table the next night, which weren’t ideal.
On top of that, the venue is pretty tough to get to as it is located inside of neighborhood, making travel in and out challenging. Despite any and all difficulties, we had great turn-outs! I loved that we had lots of people from other events that we have hosted as well as new people!
For Toronto’s meet up, we met at the local Hard Rock Cafe. Traffic again was a serious issue. It was hard to get to the restaurant and super hard to get to the venue afterwards. That said, we had quite an international crowd for that meet up. A few of us were from the States, one person from Canada, one person from Germany and a couple from the UK. We had actually met the woman from Germany before. Where? In Birmingham! We sat next to each other at the Birmingham show in December of 2011. For Duranies, the world is a small place!
Seeing Duranies meet, get to know each other, and become friends is one of the absolute best things about organizing fan events. It is the biggest reason why we do them as we know that fans who are happy with other fans stay in the fandom. They become lifelong fans who don’t and can’t walk away. Seeing people go to shows together now who met at a meet up or a convention is such a gift. We feel lucky to be part of their friendship. Most of the time that is all we need to keep going.
Yet, this time, we had people do more to acknowledge us. One of our friends told us how we helped to bring people into her life that she is so thankful for, which caused both of us to tear us a little. Then, one of our new friends in Toronto brought us gifts to thank us for what we do here! The idea of someone giving us anything blew me away but the gift itself really touched me. On top of the heartfelt card, we got exactly what we needed after the tour to pamper ourselves as well as what was needed at that moment! Vodka tonics!
These meet ups and the people who attended will keep me going for sure. They show me that what we do matters.
We have one more meet up planned for this summer tour, which is in Vegas. There is still plenty of time to RSVP if you want to join us; details can be found here. Hope to see many of you there!
Wow. It is hard to know where to start with today’s blog as I have much to say! Last night marked the second Duran Duran show of this leg of the Paper Gods tour and the first show for us. What an incredibly fun night!
Our night started fairly early as we had planned a meet up there at Ravinia before the show started. Since we had not been to Ravinia before, we didn’t know much about where to meet, how to tell people where to find us, etc. Even though, we arrived shortly after gates opened, the lawn was mobbed with people ready to spend the late afternoon/evening there, enjoying food, drink and the company of family and friends. Luckily, we were able to pick a spot right behind some concession stands near the walk way separating the pavilion from the lawn. People were able to find us and much conversation and laughter ensued. Our raffle went well and many were able to pick up a new Daily Duranie wristband or two! Based on the success of yesterday’s meet up, we look forward to tonight’s!
By 6:30, our group separated as we were all more than ready for the show! Of course, we wondered how the show was going to go since Nick was absent but had nothing but we had confidence in both the band and MNDR. We were not wrong. I’m not going to lie. It was weird to look up and not see Nick Rhodes standing behind the keyboards. There were times during the show that his presence was especially felt, such as during the Reflex when Nick normally answers the question of “why don’t you use it” or at the end of Notorious. It goes without saying that we continue to keep him and his family in our thoughts and hopes that he is able to return soon. That said, MNDR had good energy and seemed to have fun, which I appreciated. I liked how John went up to the keyboard riser a couple of times to check in with her. I’m sure that she appreciated his support and the support from the fans.
Overall, it was a good show! As with any Duran show, there are moments during the set that stand out. Interestingly enough, I felt like the real stand out song last night was Last Night in the City. Good energy throughout the entire song. The other song that worked really well last night was Notorious. The band was all front and center and seemed to be having serious fun, which I adore! Plus, who doesn’t love the addition of Nile Rodgers! I managed to capture a moment with the photo below.
Beyond those song highlights, there were good JoSi moments and fabulous DoJo, which I appreciated immensely. I have to also say that the band did a really good job moving across the entire stage. While I’m always really happy to have John play right in front of where I am, I recognize that he has to play to everyone and I thought John, Simon and Dom did a nice job moving to every area of the stage. They also did a good job trying to get the crowd to join in with the usual singing, clapping, shining cell phone lights during Save a Prayer (which was dedicated to Nick Rhodes, by the way). That said, they had their work cut out for them as the crowd was tough.
I truly believe that the crowd makes a big difference in how any show will go. If the audience has a lot of energy, that energy is fed to the band who then feeds it back to the crowd. If the crowd isn’t into it, the band has to work that much harder. I truly do feel like that was the case yesterday. While I saw many fans totally into the show, dancing and singing to every note and every word, I saw empty seats, even up front. I saw many people come and go like watching the band was just an afterthought. Many people just sat down. I think the cause of this is simple. Ravinia is one of those venues who have subscribers, people who buy tickets for the season and then pick and choose which shows to go to. Thus, not everyone in the audience is a serious Duran Duran fan. Many people could be casual fans who just know a few of the band’s hits. For those people, they sat when they got tired or didn’t know the new tracks. This type of set up means that the band really had their work cut out for them and they performed well despite the extra challenge.
Nile Rodgers is my new hero:
After Nile and Chic performed a solid set, Nile took time to shake hands with fans before exiting the stage. I used that moment to slide on up to the very front. He reached his hand down to me to shake it. Instead of shaking his hand, I asked him to take one of our brand new Daily Duranie wristbands. He took the wristband and immediately placed it on his arm causing me to have a super big smile on my face.
While I found that moment to be pretty awesome (as I did when John and Dom got and wore their wristbands!), the even better moment was when Nile came back on stage to join the band for Notorious and Pressure Off. As soon as he came on, I saw that he was still wearing the wristband. I appreciated that he took the wristband but wearing meant more.
Other random thoughts:
I must comment on a few other things that caught my attention, in some way. First, I must comment on Simon’s look last night. As you all know, Simon isn’t my “favorite” band member but he was looking good. Not only is the hair looking good, he was sporting an earring and eyeliner! My friend, Julie, joked that he was wearing eyeliner out of sympathy for Nick. It’s an idea that stuck with me. Hence, the name of the blog post!
Second, I missed a couple of elements from the fall shows. I missed the confetti during Pressure Off and, believe it or not, I missed Danceophobia. I had been looking forward to watching John dance during that song and had to make do with his little punches during Girls on Film.
The band also had an addition at the end of the show with having giant beach balls during Rio. While it was fun to see people in the audience hit them or seeing a band member or two hit/kick them back out into crowd, I found them distracting. I was watching the balls more than I was focused on the song. Rio deserves my undivided attention.
Overall, the band did well and I had a ton of fun at our meet up, during the show, and hanging with some friends after the show. It was a really fun night, which reminded me of why I love touring and going to Duran show SO much. Now, I can’t wait for tonight!!!
We have one week before we get to see Duran Duran live in concert at Ravinia in Chicago!! In the middle of April and May, I didn’t know if I would make it to June, forget about July. Here we are now. Tour time is around the corner, approaching quickly! Over the years, Rhonda and I have developed a number of touring traditions. In the last five years or so, one of the biggest traditions is to organize meet-ups before shows.
In 2011, we held a party in London. During the summer of 2012, we had meet-ups before each of the four shows we attended. That was tough. We felt like we were literally running from one place to another, from one event from another. We were traveling daily to each destination and instead of being able to take our time, we couldn’t. We had to be responsible. Yes, we took the task on ourselves because we know how important meet-ups can be. They are great for all of the fans in attendance who get to meet or see each other! At each one I have hosted or attended, I witness the same things. Fans share stories and pictures. New pictures are taken. Excitement increases. This, of course, translates to more energy at the show, which has got to feed the band’s energy. The example we always give is the Durham show in the summer of 2012. Of all the shows we saw that summer, it was by far the best. We can’t help but to think that the large turnout for the pre-show meet-up was part of the reason.
By the end of those summer shows, I was tired, though. I truly do like and feel VERY comfortable organizing events (I’m a teacher, after all. I organize lessons and classrooms everyday. I’m also a political organizer, which means setting up and running campaign activities. Organizing is in my blood.) That said, these meet-ups are work. Someone has to contact venues and communicate with them. Someone has to put up the event pages on Facebook. Someone has to answer questions from people attending. Then, sometimes, there is more to it. For example, this time around, we will need to create some sort of sign for the Chicago meet-ups. We have raffles planned with Duran merch!! There are details that need to be taken care of. Plus, it means that we can’t get there whenever we want. We have to arrive in time to set things up and we have to be “on” during the event. My point is that during the summer of 2012, it was exhausting to always have to be responsible and working. I didn’t have as much fun as I wanted.
This time, then, we decided to find a balance. We only planned meet-ups in places that we won’t be traveling to on the day of the show. Our travel will be more relaxing this way. We won’t have to worry about arriving at some special time. This means that half of our shows together will have meet-ups and half won’t. Yes, we recognize that meet-ups are great fun and enhance the show. We also appreciate the need for fans to meet each other to develop and reinforce community spirit. We want to honor that. Yet, we also owe it to ourselves to be able to relax some and just have fun.
So, what does all of this mean? It means that we will be working as event coordinators or whatever you want to call us to ensure that the meet-ups in Chicago (both nights), Toronto and Vegas will be great for all those attending. When we are not working, we will be fans just the rest of you.
One aspect of these meet-ups that we are particularly excited about is our brand new wristbands! We will have a few of the old ones (the ones that John and Dom have!!) for sale as well as metallic silver and glow-in-the-dark purple ones! The proceeds to these sales will be to go to the convention we are planning in Chicago for the weekend of August 11th (around Duran Duran Appreciation Day) in 2017.
There is still time for you to RSVP for these events! Here are our event pages with all of the details:
So, I’m not going to lie. It has been a couple of days since the presales for Duran Duran’s 2016 North America tour and I’m still reeling. As you know from Rhonda’s blogs earlier this week, things did not go as planned for many of us. We hoped for Toronto tickets, for example, and came up empty. I am not one to give up so I’ll keep checking for decent tickets. We also know that we have more to look forward to, in terms of presales once we have the Chicago information. I openly admit that this presale was the least fun for me and I have done many. I didn’t like not feeling like I didn’t know what I was doing or that I was doing something wrong. It felt icky. Negative. I don’t want to go into 2016 with less than positive thoughts surrounding this tour…so let’s look at the bright side!
First, Duran Duran gave me a tour during the summer!!!! Yes, they have toured in the summer before but this is the best yet. In 2012, they did dates in August. That worked well for me, for the most part, but I started the school year behind. I don’t like that. Even though, my students don’t arrive until September 1st, I’m usually back at it, getting ready and organized by mid-August so dates around then are tough for me. This time, they are coming to the States in July. I’m open the entire month. I could literally go to every show (in terms of work, anyway! Money is a different deal! Ugh.) I could pick and choose the shows not based on when I could squeeze the most in but based on what makes the most sense and based on where I WANT to go. At first, this freedom was almost overwhelming. I’m really grateful that I won’t have to worry about squeezing in shows and being super exhausted when I return to work. No, this time, I get to go and just enjoy!!
Speaking of enjoyment, another aspect of this tour that I’m going to just love is the fact that Rhonda and I won’t have to run from show to show. We will get to sit back and enjoy a city for a day or two before moving on. It already feels less stressful!! In October, we would go to show, then immediately start driving to the next one. It was super exhausting and we couldn’t have as much fun as we would have liked. No, this time, we get to go to a show, stay overnight in that city, have fun and travel the next day or the day after that. It is perfect! We will have FAR more energy and will be able to enjoy ourselves so much more! The west coast dates that we are hoping to do aren’t as spread out as the Midwest dates we hope to do but they are still WAY better than what we had in October. No, I have no complaints that way at all. I will praise how spread out the dates are, for sure!!
Another aspect of this upcoming tour that I’m especially excited about is that Rhonda and I will get to spend a LOT of time together, in the same place, during July. During most years, we are able to get together about 2-4 times a year for long weekends, on average. Sometimes, we are together for up to a week and other times, we are together for just a couple of days. This time, though, we will be together for what will probably add up to almost 2 weeks during that month. As we reminded each other, the best part of touring is being together! We will get to see new places and stop at some of our favorite on the road locations! Our touring traditions will be followed, not once but twice during the month! Frankly, the world should probably be afraid as we have come up with some crazy ideas on tour like writing a book about fandom or doing a fan convention!! Who knows what we will come up with this time around!!?!?!
One thing that I know that many people are wondering about is meet ups! Will we have any? Where will they be? Ideally, we would LOVE to hold meet ups before every single show. Obviously, we can’t be at every single show. (Someone got a winning lottery ticket that you wanna give us?!) That said, I would love to do one for every single show that we are attending. Unfortunately, I don’t know that we can. When we set up meet ups, we always want to do them the right way and we have some great features that we were hoping to include this time around, but many of those ideas will cost us money. Therefore, I suspect that we might be able to do afford just one or two meet ups this time around, if we want to do them well. I’m bummed about it because we know that we enjoy them. We like meeting other people going to the show. It is always a good time to hear people’s fan stories and to get people even MORE excited for a show. This excitement always seems to make a more energetic and fun show for the people who go to the shows, which feeds the band when they are on stage. It is a win win! At least, this is the goal of the meet ups! I’m sad that it seems like we won’t be able to do as many this time around, but I promise the one(s) we are able to do, we will plan something extra special!!! As far as when and where they will be, just watch this space!
I guess that is really the point of this blog post. It is to remind MYSELF to not focus on the less-than-desireable presales or the limits to doing more meet ups but appreciating that we get any tour at all and that we there are so many aspects of this tour that will work so well. I have to and want to focus on that. We will make this tour the best it can be!!!
The future is, indeed, still tomorrow. Yet, that doesn’t stop me and my partner-in-crime from thinking about the future and to dream big. After all, dreams are free or so we have heard. 😉 Yesterday, I encouraged every Duran fan out there to embrace the current status of Duran Duran, musically, and activity wise. This present album cycle is far from done. In fact, just this past week, Simon discussed Duran Duran’s return to the US in the summer for more tour dates as part of the latest Katy Kafe (highlights discussed here). This prompted Rhonda and I to think about one significant aspect of touring for us and that is the meet up! If you have been reading for awhile, you know that we often like to set up meet ups before shows we attend when we can. We like bringing fans together to meet, mingle, laugh, squee and share in the excitement. Fandom is all about friendships and this is where friendships can truly begin. Plus, the increase in excitement is sent back to the band during the show, often creating a better show for all! It is a win-win.
As much as we have loved the meet ups in the past, we think we can improve upon them, make them better, make them for fun. So, if dreams are free, then here is our dream, our vision of what the meet ups could be like! In some cases, we have been able to do some of these things for one or two meet ups or for the convention, but not for all. That’s what we want.
Pre-show Meet Up Features
Some of the elements we would love to be able to provide at every single meet up we plan, include:
Music and/or Videos of Duran Duran. Of course, right? That is a given. The venue we host at must be willing and/or able to play/show Duran stuff.
Duran themed drink specials! We were able to do some drink specials at the meet up in Durham in 2012. Some of which people are still asking about. Anyone remember the specific ingredients for the Stolen Leopard drink? We were also able to do it for the convention. While Rhonda and I love our vodka tonics, we are good with trying new drinks, especially if Duran inspired!
Icebreakers of some sort. I hate the word “icebreaker” but we want to make sure that people are able to get to meet each other and get to know each other in a fun, low stress sort of way. I, generally, hate these kinds of things so if I would think it is fun, maybe, you all will, too!
Photos! We want to encourage lots and lots of photo taking! People should be excited to meet each other and many might want photos to look back on after the facts. Group pictures are a must! Rhonda and I generally suck at the selfie but we have got to work on this, especially for those group shots
For the Hollywood Bowl show, we planned the meet up for before the VIP reception. We would definitely still do that so that everyone could attend. Of course, if someone wanted us just do the VIP party at our meet up location or vice versa, I’m sure we could find a way! We are creative!
Another fun idea we had is for raffles at the meet ups. Wouldn’t it be cool to win some cool Duran merchandise or to win some Duran related experience of some sort, for example? It would also be good to get a little gift for attending, too, right? Now, if Rhonda and I would just figure out a way to buy these items…maybe we need to start playing the lottery?!
Of course, in an ideal world and that is what I’m talking about here, there would be other activities that we would be able to coordinate for more than just one or two shows per tour. What are some of those other activities?
Hotel Room Blocks! Whenever I have stayed at a hotel with a lot of other Duranies, it is super fun! It is easy to meet up with people and the partying can go on until the early morning hours in someone’s room. Plus, with enough people, perhaps, group rates could apply!
Party Buses! We have reserved some party buses in Atlanta in 2012 and for the convention in 2013. In both cases, they were super fun and made getting to and from a venue so much easier! Besides, who doesn’t like being in a large vehicle with someone driving YOU and others like you?! The party then travels with you!!
Now, I know that some out there have mentioned renting a big RV to travel in between shows in (Yes, Heather–I’m looking at YOU!). Rhonda and I are not opposed to that in our ideal meet up scenario. Those, unlike dreams, aren’t free. Likewise, drivers aren’t either! Back to the lottery winnings…While we wait for the big lottery win, we will suggest that road trips between shows definitely require a caravan. A caravan of Duranies. Of course, we should warn the various cities and highways that we would all be using at the same time! It wouldn’t be because we would block traffic. Oh no, it would be because loud music and *squeeing* will be heard! I can see and hear the warning now, “*Alert! Duranies are coming!!*”
Dreams vs. Reality
If we were to continue in our ideal vision for meet ups, I might mention our desire for seats on the Duran Duran plane or being sponsored by a favorite brand of vodka. I might also suggest getting some advanced notice so that Rhonda and I could start organizing. Heck, we would even take a rough outline like having the months and cities in order to have starting points!! If the band is thinking about 2016, I might point out that the best times for us would be either March 19th to March 28th or between June 11th and August 21st. In all seriousness, we would love to do a lot/most/all of this for our fan community. We want to get people excited to meet each other and get excited for the show! We figure the better the experiences we all have, the more likely it is that we will do more shows, right? I know that it is the case for me! More fun equals more shows. It is a simple equation!
I have been thinking a lot about creation lately. No, I’m not talking about creation vs. evolution but about how people go about creating something. Obviously, I have thought about the band creating the album or my mom creating a new fiber art piece. I have even been thinking about how Rhonda and I created this…whatever…you want to call it. (Blog seems too simple, doesn’t it?!) In the midst of my thinking, I discovered that sometimes, most of the times, the artist doesn’t really know what is going to be created before it has been worked on for quite some time. I admit that I feel that way about this…company, partnership, blog, whatever. When we started, our focus was simply to help us write our book on fandom. It was an attempt to not only observe fandom in action but to also write about it, to put ideas/reactions/thoughts into words in an informal setting. Initially, that seemed like a good goal. Very quickly, though, we realized that we were doing a lot more than observing and reacting. We were taking part, creating action.
What action were we creating or focusing upon? I didn’t know for a long time. Both Rhonda and myself could see that there were problems or areas of our fandom that could be improved. We felt very strongly that we weren’t going to just complain but to offer solutions. One area that we thought could use some improvement was the lack of community feeling–many fans were completely isolated. Others had just a friend or two or, maybe, a small group. Yet, there wasn’t enough intermingling. There wasn’t a strong community spirit. At times, a Duranie community feeling would pop up, but not enough to be sustained. Why does that matter? Simple. The more community feeling, the better the experiences for fans. Fans are far happier when they are hanging with other fans. This translates to staying in the fandom longer and even bringing in new people. Therefore, Rhonda and I brainstormed and continue to brainstorm means of creating greater community feeling. We have attempted to reach this in a variety of ways, including blog posts, through social media and through in person activities. In addition to planning and holding a fan convention, we also have held numerous meet ups, mostly around tours!
Our planned meet ups have happened in a lot of different places from London, England, to Hollywood, California, and everywhere in between, including Chicago, Durham, Atlanta and more. We have found that at each and every meet up, the fans who show up have a great time meeting other fans or seeing other fans whom they haven’t seen in a long time. Usually, lots of stories are shared as well as conversation, such as what songs people hope that the band plays at the show. There is almost always discussion about where people are sitting in the hopes of sitting near new friends and connections! In almost every case I can think of, these meet ups do more than just facilitate new connections and friendships but they get people super excited for the show, which translates to more energy at the show, which the band can feed off of. It is a win-win!
Over these last 5 years, we have begun to notice a bit of a pattern. We have had more and more requests for meet ups. What do I mean by that? I’ll explain with a few examples. For this last tour, people contacted us and asked if we were having meet ups in _________________ (insert various city here). Even after this mini-tour, we have been asked questions like, “When Duran tours in ________________ (insert another city) in 2016, will you be holding a meet up then? I really want to go to one of your meet ups!” Obviously, we are flattered by these requests. More importantly, to us, though, is the confirmation that people actually enjoy and look forward to them! When we probe these requests further, people always tell us that they really want to meet other Duranies. This tells us that community matters. It matters to Duranies and it is something that we all want. We are happy if our meet ups give this to other fans. We certainly have benefitted ourselves by meeting LOTS of great fans this way!
What does this mean for the future? Simple. It means that we will do as many meet ups as we can. Obviously, they take time and effort to set up, to let people know, etc., but we definitely see that people enjoy them and that they get something from attending. Once we know tour dates (assuming that there will be more), we will try to get meet ups scheduled for the show(s) we are able to do. So, watch this space!
One thing that Amanda and I have committed ourselves and Daily Duranie to doing is bringing fans together. Sometimes that means planning conventions. Other times it means getting together for dinner. Sometimes it’s a Duranie sleepover (That’s right…just imagine that potential chaos and debauchery.) Still other times it means simply using our blog to get the news out there, and that’s what we’re doing today!
As many fans should know by now, next Wednesday, the 10th of September, is practically another national holiday. Why?? It’s the date of many Unstaged screenings across the country!
One of these screenings will take place in Durham, North Carolina at the Wynnsong Theater (1807 Martin Luther King Jr. Pkwy), and a group of dedicated and FUN Duranies decided to put together a meet-up for dinner and drinks beforehand. They’re meeting at G2B Gastropub at 5:00pm (EDT) in Durham. (3211 Shannon Rd, Suite 106). If you’re interested and want to join in the fun – you’ll need to join their event page on Facebook. If you’re nearby, don’t miss out!! Grab your tickets to the show (there are still plenty available as I understand) and meet some great new friends for dinner! Trust me when I say this is a great group – we had a HUGE meet-up in Durham before the show at DPAC there in August of 2012 and it was a fantastic time! I wish I could be there, but the commute from LA would be a bit long…. 🙂
With that in mind, if you have a Duranie event that you’d like us to help promote – drop us a line, we’re always willing to help!!
On today’s date in 1985, Power Station played at Spectrum in Philadelphia.
Also on this date, but in the year 2012, Duran Duran played at the Durham Performing Arts Center in none other than Durham, North Carolina! This, my friends…was a great show, and the night began with a fantastic meet up at the West End Wine Bar just a couple of blocks away from DPAC in Durham. Approximately 100 Duran fans came to the meet-up before the show and began the party with Stolen Leopards (a Duran-inspired drink created for that evening by the bar), mingling, and even a little Duran in the background and on TV screens over the bar as an appetizer for what was to come later. It was a great time, and we continue to thank Karen Booth and Kim Buchanan for helping us organize and plan such a great meet-up. Let’s do it again!!! -R
I am reminded that one year ago today was the Durham, North Carolina show. Easily the best show of the four I saw last summer, and anytime I think about that night, I break into a small grin. It was a good night, and not entirely because I spent 3/4 of the concert in front of Dom. Yeah, yeah – no one wants to read my gushing about that. There was also the little matter of a great meet-up at a fantastic wine bar in Durham, just around the corner (practically) from the venue. It was well-attended, and I think it put everyone in just the right kind of mood. Those are the kind of gatherings that I think back on, and am glad I was there to take part.
I was just telling Amanda this past week that it seems very weird not to be planning a trip to see the band, or more likely – getting ready to leave to meet up with Amanda for a road trip. August is typically a holiday month for the band unless they’re touring, and as such the band isn’t really working right now. I don’t know if they’re all on holiday or if they’re just taking a break – I don’t keep up with their individual schedules, but I do know it’s very quiet, and it’s that part of the summer where I’m beginning to say to myself, “Let’s just get on with it.” My kids have been going through registration for school, the August heat has finally started to come to Southern California where I live. I’m pretty much done with the summer doldrums. It would be nice…it WILL be nice…to get some news from the band again. I really have no business saying I’m bored, with school registration, preparing myself for homeschooling, kindergarten and dealing with my oldest being at a regular high school again along with convention planning and occasionally even working on our book proposal, you’d think I’d have enough on my plate. I really do, but that doesn’t stop me from daydreaming about planning another road trip or wondering what the new music will really sound like.
I’m looking forward to the days – should they come – where we get a teensy snippet of music from the studio, or watching a bit of news on YouTube from Nick on their progress…or maybe a blog from John. When you’re a fan, you live for those tiny moments in between albums because it breaks up the daily monotony. We’ve still got quite a wait ahead of us, so I look for the little moments to break up the silence. I can’t imagine that I’m alone. I see your tweets on Twitter!
When I indulge in a little daydreaming about a previous show – it is often the Durham show that comes to mind for me. So many great things about that trip and specifically that show for me to remember with fondness. It makes me hopeful for what comes ahead, whether it’s Durandemonium in October (I am so glad we have that coming – I’m starving for some Duranie-time!) or a possible tour next year. I’m looking forward to seeing friends, making new ones, and creating a whole set of new memories. That’s what is getting me through this last bit of summer before my life becomes crazy with reading, teaching, helping in classrooms and last minute convention planning. October will come very quickly once September 3rd hits and the first of my three children goes back to school – so while I complain about the silence and boredom, I’m treasuring the moments at the same time!
An outspoken examination and celebration of fandom!