Today is a rough one, I’m not going to pretend otherwise. Last night as I was drifting off to sleep with the TV on (a very bad but frequent habit of mine), our local news station began reporting on a shooting in Thousand Oaks, California. The venue was the Borderline bar and grill, and it was college night, which attracts a number of young people from the surrounding communities.
I have no personal connection to the shooting, other than having college-aged kids, living in Southern California, and being human. Even so, I watched the news with that now-familiar sense of dread. All I know for sure, is that I spent many nights during college in the local bars (sorry mom!!), and I never once worried about being shot or not coming home.
This incident is no different from any of the other shootings that have taken place here in the United States. I don’t pretend that this time is any different. It’s just a little closer to home, I suppose. It makes me think about things that no parent, no spouse, should ever really need to consider.
I don’t want to use this blog as a political soapbox. This site is my safe place. It’s the spot, so to speak, where I can escape the stresses of reality for a few minutes each day. I’m not ignoring the world, just taking a breather. So that’s what I’m going to do.
On this day in 2011, Duran Duran released the video for Girl Panic. I can’t really think of a better escape than watching a video that embraced the storied Duran Duran “excesses” of their career – tongue in cheek or otherwise.
Thank goodness for Duran Duran. They still manage to make me smile, even on days like this.