I know lots of people who love Thanksgiving. They love the ritual of a big meal that traditionally includes turkey, pie, and more. Perhaps, they enjoy the long dinner conversation or the football that always seems to be on. I cannot say that I’m one of them. I don’t mind a little football and I like eating but it always seems like a lot of work to me. That said, the one aspect the holiday that I tend to dig is the idea of giving thanks, expressing gratitude, especially when times are tough. So, here is what I am thankful for this year.
First and foremost, I’m beyond grateful for my family. They continue to be my bedrock, my foundation and more. I have always said that I feel like I won the lottery when it came to my parents, which is still true. This year was a tough one for my dad, health wise, but he managed to push through and is currently doing well. In fact, he was still able to help me work on the campaign this year. Speaking of family and campaigning, my parents, my siblings and my nieces all volunteered to turn out the vote. This makes me feel extremely proud and I know that it thrills my dad to no end.
Second, after experiencing a lot of losses, finally, my campaign team won one. This was a big deal for so many reasons. I feel like a wrong that was done to me and thousands of others like me was finally acknowledged. The damage might not fixed instantly but at least no more will be done. On top of that, it gave me hope for the future. This is something that I have not had for a couple of years now. I have been living on edge, in preparation of things getting worse. While I don’t believe that we are completely out of the woods, I now think we might make it out okay. On a more personal level, I gave a lot of time and energy to the campaign. I believe that it what I needed to do and action definitely feels better than complaining. I’m thankful that my work was not in vain. It made a real difference and I’m proud at the results my team achieved. In the area in which I organized, we got 90% of registered voters to the polls and increased the vote for our candidates by 3%. That’s huge, especially in a state in which victories were decided by less than 2%.
Beyond my family and elections, I’m thankful for my friends. As a kid, my mother used to tell me that I would have lots of different types of friends in my life. I didn’t know what she meant then but I do now. I know that there are friends that I have nothing but fun with. (I’m looking forward to that fun in February in Vegas!) I have work friends whom I go to when I need advice or some idea to get through the work day, week, month or year. This year, I had friends step up to help me with campaigning. Then, there are friends who fit into multiple roles, like Rhonda. No matter the type of friendship someone provides, I am grateful for them. Each and every one of you matters a lot to me.
Of course, I’m also grateful to the people connected to fandom. The first person on that list is Rhonda. Sometimes, I shake my head wondering what in the actual hell we were thinking when we started this blog but most of the time, I’m glad it is in my life. Even when I think, “I have seriously no time to blog,” I somehow manage and always feel better after having done so. It has provided me with more than just a place to talk about Duran Duran (although I love that, too!). It has given me a place to sort out my observations as well as my thoughts and feelings about fandom and more. I love all the people that came into my life as a result. I have made so many connections simply by doing something I love which is not only this blog but going to Duran shows or organizing Duranie events. It is all pretty awesome! So I’m super grateful to those who read the blog, participate in the daily questions, complete assigned homework, attend our events, say hi to us when they see us or even want to hang out with us. Much love to you all.
Last but not least, I’m so glad that Duran Duran is still part of my life. Not only have they provided something constant in my life, they have brought so much joy. Many of my favorite experiences have centered around Duran Duran. How many other people have a favorite band that has brought them nothing but fun? I suspect not many. Every time I think about seeing them live, I know there is no place I would rather be. I’m very lucky that I have a couple of shows to look forward to in 2019.
On that note, I’m off to see my parents and my niece for another day of fun.