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You Had Plans All Along

If someone asked you what your greatest strength or talent was, what would you say?  I’m not talking about the skill or quality for a job interview, even though it could be used at work as well.  No, I’m thinking about the essential element of who you are and when you are using this, it feels good and right.  Would Simon say that he is an entertainer?  What about Nick?  Or John?  Would they say artist?  Multi-media specialist?  The past week has made me think a lot about what mine is.  This skill or quality I am thinking of is used here with fandom, at work and during political actions or campaigns.

Some of you have guessed that it is organization.  I thrive in situations which require organization.  To me, there is nothing better than when I have worked hard to organize something and it goes well.  I feel that way at work when I plan a great lesson.  I definitely feel that way when political campaigns result in a win for my candidates.  Likewise, I love when I am able to organize surrounding my fandom.  Over the last eight years or so, Rhonda and I have found ourselves organizing various fan events from simple meet ups to online parties to a full-blown weekend convention.  Each time those events went well, I felt successful.  Sometimes, like with the convention, Durandemonium, successful doesn’t adequately describe how I felt afterwards.  I was on top of the world, ready to do more.  I mean, who doesn’t like it when the core of who they are helps to create something fun?

As you all know, Rhonda and I have been thinking about doing something like a mini-convention in Las Vegas during the weekend that the band is playing there in February 2019.  We have brainstormed some ideas and have sought out information.  Hopefully, we will be able to figure out something definite soon so that we can share and start signing people up!  Here is what I can tell you.  Right now, we are thinking about doing something Thursday night as a welcome party of sorts.  Then, we would have activities during the day on both Friday and Saturday.  Obviously, Friday and Saturday nights would be taken up with the shows themselves.

For those of you who were not at the convention in 2013, some of the activities we had included get to know you games (Duran style), other Duran related games, video viewing, book talks and a party.  If you were at Durandemonium, what did you think of those activities?  Which did you like best?  If you weren’t at that convention, what sounds good to you?  What are some other suggestions you might have?

We would like to get the ball rolling for whatever we do in Vegas as quickly as we can for various reasons, including to reserve a space, start planning the activities and make sure that everyone knows that they should come in on Thursday to party with us!  Nothing is obviously definite as there are lots of factors that we need to consider before we totally commit to it, but I am feeling optimistic.  Maybe, it is just my desire to use those organizational skills but I don’t think so.  Is there anything much better than a bunch of Duranies hanging out together and having fun?  I don’t think so!

-A

No Time for Worry

So maybe you have heard that Rhonda and I have shows coming up in 2019.  Yes, I admit that we are very fortunate.  I acknowledge the fact that there are many, many, many fans that are nowhere near as lucky.  I wish that every Duran fan had shows to look forward to.  In thinking about this, I’m going to take a minute or two here to simply be grateful that, at least right now, when it comes to Duran, I’m lucky.  Lately, I have been feeling like anything but in the rest of my life.  Life has been hard.  I have spent much of my energy just working my way back from holes of unhappiness just to “okay” status.  Happiness is not a word I use or have used for a long time.  Needless to say, I need some joy.

When the three shows (one in New Orleans and two in Vegas) were announced, I did not hesitate to pass that information on to Rhonda in an “official Duranie alert” capacity.  When the information popped up, I didn’t stop and think about any potential negatives.  For example, I wouldn’t say that we had a great time at the last show at the Chelsea in December of 2017 due to a giant standing in front of us blocking our view and a number of potential fights almost breaking out.  I chose not to even think about a repeat of that show.  Likewise, I didn’t stop and complain that these shows were once again in Vegas.  While I’m able to get there, I admit that it would be nice for me to not have to fly.  The Midwest, I hear, is lovely!  (Hint!)  Just sayin’.  I heard that some fans questioned whether or not the setlist and performance would be much different from the Paper Gods Tour.  Nope, that thought did not really enter my mind.  Why is that?  I suspect a lot of it is my need for joy but also just being grateful that I will get another show, another weekend with friends.

I have been thinking about how life was ten or even a few years ago.  I have to admit that I remember myself complaining about various things, including work, politics, parents, etc.  Looking back, I clearly didn’t realize how lucky I had it.  Sure, there are always things that can be improved, made better, fixed but I wish I understood then that things could also be a lot worse.  In hindsight, I don’t think I appreciated how good life was then.  Things felt easier.  No, they were not perfect but better than they are now as so many aspects of my life have just gotten tougher, harder, more challenging.

Funny enough, when thinking about Duran, I am willing to bet that I did the exact same thing.  When I look back to different eras like Astronaut and All You Need Is Now, I have a lot of fondness.  Some of the best memories and moments took place during those album cycles.  Yet, if you read this blog in 2011 and 2012 or even 2013, you probably didn’t see me being super grateful.  In all honesty, I suspect that there might have been some criticism.  While I still think that there can be room for improvement when it comes to Duranland, I no longer am or want to be the person that picks out all of the band’s flaws.  No, they are not perfect.  Yes, they could grow in multiple ways.  But I have a choice.  Do I want to just complain or enjoy what I have?

Sure, I could vent some frustration over Ticketmaster because it truly does suck or spew continued annoyance by the lack of setlist changes.  Those would be valid criticisms.  Yet, I have so many other things to worry about than every little crappy aspect of being a fan of this band.  Instead, I would rather embrace the joy, the fun, the friendship, the escape that Duran shows and tours brings.  So, you won’t hear me complain about the setlist or the venue in February.  No, I’m just going to be dang happy to be there.

-A