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Guest Blog: Sears Center Show 2006

Look another guest blog!  This time it is our friend, Nat, who wanted to share about her experiences at the Chicago Sears Center Show in October of 2006.  If you something you want to write about in connection with Duran Duran or fandom, feel free to send it our way!  -A&R

By Nat Mingo

When you’re in a relationship, you celebrate moments. I’ve been listening to Duran Duran music since the needle dropped on the Seven & the Ragged Tiger album on my sister’s plastic Fisher-Price record player. So, yes, I’m in an active relationship with Duran Duran’s music. It’s SLB’s 60th birthday as I type this. Earlier this week, I was delighted to read an Instagram remembrance post about the band’s show at the Sears Center on October 26, 2006. I was also chagrined because I didn’t remember the exact date. Whoops! I should try to remember this date because it was my first …front row experience!

When Astronaut was released, I was teaching full-time and my funds were minimal. I went to the shows that I could afford. I was glad to be at the shows but felt unsatisfied with my view. I observed very happy fans sauntering to the first two rows. Afterwards, I promised myself that if the opportunity arose, I would try for a “VIP” seat. I was honoring that preteen who wore headphones while delving into the depths of the DD catalog and her hard work since then.

On the presale date, I remember sitting at my computer with sweaty palms while on the DDM site. Anxious thoughts were pervasive: “How does this work?”, “Will I get a get a good seat?”, “Am I a fool for trying this and going alone to a show?” Hours-no minutes- later, I scored a VIP ticket. Yaaasssss!!! I posted on the fan board that I was going alone and looking for meet up with other people. Two big hearted fans from Seattle and San Antonio said they would hang with me. I still appreciate their extended kindness and when fans embrace each other at shows.

I stayed at the hotel and got my ticket from the DDM staff. I opened the envelope and thought, “Hmm, this might be good.” A fan asked me where I would be sitting and when I told her, she walked away without speaking to me. Yikes! It was not a good way to start a show. Luckily, I met the two aforementioned fans and enjoyed spending time with others. We got to hear the band’s sound check and they rehearsed “The House of the Rising Sun” for the Voodoo festival which was a few days afterwards in New Orleans. I was thrilled for this unexpected and not repeated treat. I watched a fan get whisked away to meet the band before the show. When the fan returned, she was dazed but graciously accepted my congratulations.

I remembered walking toward my seat and asking an usher for assistance. She smiled and told me where to go. When I saw my seat and its proximity to the stage, my…heart…swelled. It was a palm to the chest moment. I don’t remember many specific moments about the show. They did play “Hold Back the Rain” which I miss in the set list now. I think we sang “Happy Birthday” to Simon. What matters is that I dared and enjoyed the experience.

I’ve purchased several “VIP” tickets since this show. “To VIP or not to VIP” will always be a question I will ask myself of the concerts I attend. I’ve learned that each show is unique. I’ve learned to have quasi-realistic expectations. No, John has never mouthed, “Hey, Boo” towards me from the stage. I’ve learned to look for the minute interactions between the bandmates and to appreciate a different perspective from each seat location. Most importantly, I’ve learned to be more GRATEFUL that I can attend a concert wherever my seat may be located.

So to the readers of this blog, if you see a woman lip-syncing while awkwardly dancing during “A View to A Kill”, it’s me. Please come say, “hello.”

Hoping to see you at a show,

Nat

Nathalie is a daughter, sister, Auntie, educator, reader, dreamer, Christian, Midwestern, Sci-Fi & Superhero Nerdette  whose favorite band is Duran Duran. She owns multiple copies of most DD albums.  She collects band t-shirts and proudly wears them in her everyday life. 

Find yourself in the moment

On Sunday, my husband and I went and visited my brother-in-law. He’s on an extended stay at the City of Hope, a world-renowned research hospital in Southern California. It is by far the best place for him. He finished a first round of very strong chemotherapy, hoping to kill off the cancer cells in his blood, and he’s in the hospital hoping that his numbers all come up so that he can go home, and then wait for a bone marrow donor match.  My family’s operating word right now is hope.

I was really nervous about going to the hospital. I hadn’t gone to see my brother yet, and finally on Sunday Walt suggested we go.  I must have come up with 50,000 reasons why I shouldn’t go.  In the end, the kids stayed home while Walt and I climbed into the car and made the trip. I tried to stay calm, but I could feel my nerves on edge. I hate admitting that. The White Coat Syndrome I’ve developed over the years has not lessened. It’s just unnerving to walk in to a hospital, particularly when you’re going to the hematology floor and you’ve got to slip on gloves and mask in order to visit a beloved family member. There’s no way to make that comfortable, and I’m just the visiting family member. I can’t imagine the one being in the bed.

I don’t remember what I said exactly after I’d fumbled to put on gloves that were two sizes too big (that’s what happens when you’re nervous and grab a pair of XL rather than M) and a face mask – backwards of course.  I stepped through the door and noted the sterile floor, the “brain” that controlled all of the different medicines and platelets that my brother was getting at the time. I mumbled something about how that room was the last place I expected to hang out with my brother-in-law.  He smiled easily, just as he usually does, and told me to relax.  He wanted to just to stay in the moment, forget about where we were or why, and just enjoy talking. And we did. While no, there was no ignoring the nurse coming in every few hours, or the big chart on the white board telling us all how his numbers are doing – everything from white blood cells to potassium being tracked with the hope of sending him home, I did find a way to relax. We truly visited, and my brother-in-law is a rock star.

He is doing so well. I mean, he is very sick and there’s no getting past that, but he looked really good for someone who is fighting for his life. He hasn’t lost his hair or his sense of humor, or his faith, for that matter (my BIL studied to be a pastor, and while it is not a passion I share, I fully respect his devotion). And we did talk about his illness and what may come.  We talked about how there is a time for questions about how he’s really doing, and a time to just enjoy the moment just like we would if we were wine tasting. For some reason, those words finally clicked with me. He was right.

We didn’t let the fact that he was sitting in a hospital bed stop us from laughing that day. Later in the day, my sister-in-law arrived and it was the four of us, laughing and joking around just as we normally would. It felt good, and normal, as strange as that sounds. I don’t think I looked at my phone much that day, because I was far too busy enjoying every single second I could sit in that chair and talk with my brother and sister.

Staying in the moment can be a really hard thing to do. I don’t know if it’s just a “me” thing or if everyone has a hard time with that – but I’m always thinking about where I need to be next. Admittedly, I have a really hard time putting down my phone and just focusing on what is in front of me. Oddly, the only time I don’t seem to struggle is when I’m at a Duran Duran concert, but it wasn’t always that way.  I can remember when bringing small cameras to the shows stopped being such a big deal – most venues allowed them. I took my camera to every show and spent a fair amount of time trying to take the perfect shots. And then one time – at the Sears Center show outside of Chicago in 2006 – I forgot my camera in the car. I didn’t take pictures and just enjoyed the concert. It was AMAZING. I enjoyed that show so much more, and yet I didn’t take a single picture to capture the memory. It is all in my head, down to the moment Dom came to center stage and played the opening melody to Ordinary World as our friend Sara leaned over and said “Welcome to the band, motherfucker.”  (Yes, we curse like sailors.) Oddly, it fit the moment.

From then on, my urge to reach down and grab the camera (or phone nowadays) shrank considerably. There are many shows when I don’t take a single picture. I would rather just dance, smile, laugh, and not have anything but the memories in my head when I leave.

I soak up every single second of those shows. I forget about the world outside, or what might happen the next day. I don’t think about work, or family, or stress. I just enjoy the music, the show, and the people – both those on the stage and off.  I’m starting to realize I sometimes need to experience real life that way too. There are times when I need to just put down the phone, or forget about what is going on at work, or what is going to happen tomorrow, and focus on the right here and now. Find yourself in the moment. I am still learning.

-R