There’s a Dream that Strings the Road

Have I ever told you about the time we got a picture with Simon?

There are some people that I can honestly say I never thought I’d actually speak to in person, much less be brazen enough to request a photo….and I really believed that Simon was ON that list. I couldn’t have been more wrong.

So, our fateful meeting – of which I am certain that Simon has little to no memory – took place after the David Lynch Foundation event at the Ace Hotel.  We’d been ushered out of the rooftop bar at closing, and spilled out onto the sidewalk in front of the hotel. I fiddled with my phone while the group I was with mingled about, and I happened to look up to see a crowd just down the street in front of a taco hut/truck. At this point, it was after 2am, and I wondered who would want to eat so late, then I saw someone very tall in the crowd, and I knew it had to be Simon.

I mentioned as much to Amanda and our little group, and I believe it was Krista who announced that Amanda and I would be getting our photo with him.  I nearly dropped my phone when I looked up in surprise, eyes wide.  “Are you sure we should?” I asked.  In my defense, I figured that I’d gotten into the after party…I’d not only gotten a photo(s) with Dom, but I’d had a conversation with him, given him a wristband (Oh yes, he has a Daily Duranie wristband now!)…and seen Amanda get a photo with John Taylor. Why press my luck with the one band member that I know has taken many a fan down a notch for approaching him at the wrong time?  I’ll admit it, I was a little (a LOT!) worried about approaching Simon.  But before I could really run the other way…Krista had already walked right up to Simon AND told him who we were.  “Hi Simon, this is Amanda and Rhonda, they write a blog called The Daily Duranie, you may have heard of it.”

Simon was up and off the bench he was sitting on in record time, saying “HELLLLOOOOO” just like Mrs. Doubtfire!  At that point, I was sure that I was about to wake up in my own bed from the strangest dream I’d had in years, but someone had asked him if we could get a picture with him and he said “Let’s do this!”

And before we knew it…he hugged us to his sides and we got a photo. I lived to tell about it!



Truth be told, I’d heard so many stories about approaching Simon over the years, that I would have never, EVER done it on my own.  As much as I might tease him mercilessly here on the blog, and as much as I might be really hard on the guy, I do have great love and respect for him. I mean let’s face it – Duran Duran has been a huge part of my life for a very long time. I didn’t want anything to ruin my feelings. That said, Simon couldn’t really have been any nicer than he was to Amanda and I that night…and I will never forget his hearty “HEELLLLLOOOOOO” as we walked up and Krista told him who we were.  There are moments when I wonder if I’d dreamt up the entire thing, but then Amanda reminds me that she was standing right there with me and heard him say it!

Life is pretty damn ironic at times. A month ago I would have told anyone they had a screw loose if it was suggested I’d get a picture with Simon…not to mention that out of the “official” band members, he was the very FIRST.  When I think about the journey I’ve been on with this band, going to the UK twice, writing this blog….my long ago “spirited” posts with Moocher on DDF, I smile.  Sure, maybe it’s ironic, but I think it worked out exactly as it was always meant.

I hope I always remember that night. It was a long time coming and worth every second.


5 thoughts on “There’s a Dream that Strings the Road”

  1. I have to admit, that I am the exact same way. I hope someday I have the opportunity to test out my level of shyness. Maybe I would even be able to be an enabler… you never know. And how brilliant was Krista? Good on you!

    I would suspect that Simon is probably more guarded when he’s doing personal non-work (aka band-related) things. But after a show… he’s still on duty. Even if that means getting a taco. A low-fat taco, right?

    Thanks for sharing the story! Its the life-blood of fandom… and its not happening nearly enough!

    1. I wish I had more stories to share, Heather…but I aim to fix that in the coming years. 😉

      Krista was awesome, had she not marched herself (and us) over there, the photo would not have happened. Sadly, I’ve heard stories about Simon even while he was “on duty”, and I know I shouldn’t believe everything I hear, but it put enough doubt in my head to make me think twice and even three times about approaching him.

      I’m going to go with “it was a late-night taco” and leave it at that. I think the evidence is in his latest photos…no pot-belly, and I’m not gonna judge him on a taco. Besides, the whole weight-loss thing is really tough, and we all have to “cheat” once in a while. He looks great, and he is actually inspiring even ME to keep going.

      Here’s to more Duran-stories!!! -R

    1. Amanda, have you seen that video of him at the OC Fairgrounds?!? Oh wait…yes you have…BECAUSE YOU FILMED IT!

      Case closed.


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