One question or comment I have seen more than once relating to this tour is when Duran is coming back to the US. I am actually a little surprised by this question as it seems to me that many who are asking it, are hoping or thinking that Duran will come back in 2012. It seems to me that the people asking this are people who aren’t able to see a show now. Maybe, thinking that they will come back sooner rather than later helps them deal with their disappointment. I get that. It would help me, too. That said, I’m still surprised about it. First, I am still worried about Simon. Do we really even know if he can do these shows. While we know that he has been able to sing many notes that he wasn’t before, I haven’t seen anything to indicate that he is perfect. Will he be able to make it through these 20 some dates? If he does that, will he be able to make it through the UK? My point here is simple. Let’s worry about getting through what is already scheduled but don’t assume that everything is like normal. It isn’t. Then, if things are back on track, what about the rest of the world?
Duran still needs to reschedule Europe. They owe it to those fans to do that next. Yes, I think there is a very legitimate argument to be made that they should have done the UK first then Europe before coming back here. I wouldn’t disagree with it. I understand why they are doing this, assuming that they had these dates scheduled before they postponed Europe. That said, I do think it would be good for American fans to remember that our country has had them twice in one year before the UK or Europe, not to mention the rest of the world. They still haven’t done dates in South America (yes, I know that they have ONE date scheduled in Brazil), Asia, Australia or make up the dates in South Africa. There are a LOT more places for them to play before they come back here. No matter how much we love them here or how big our country is or how much money they make here, there are other places in the world, other fans that need to be reached. We cannot and should not be selfish. Yes, obviously, I want to see them as much as I can. All fans do. I try to understand, though, that the US isn’t the only place in the world.
Now, I can imagine that many of you are saying something along the lines of, “You live close to shows so it isn’t a big deal for you” or “You have the time and money to travel”. I won’t deny that I have been VERY lucky with what I have been able to do. I am within driving distance of a major market (Chicago) and have been very fortunate to be able to travel to see other shows. That said, it isn’t like I’m able to do everything I want to do. I can’t go to all the shows I want to. I can’t travel all the time. I have to make choices and I have to make it work with the dates and locations I have been given. I have to be willing to drive or fly to the shows that I want to see. I have to be willing to sacrifice buying some things that I want in order to be be able to go to a show. It is about choices and priorities for me. I realize that the band isn’t going to play in my backyard or charge me less for tickets. I have to be willing to work with what they have given as far as any tour goes. If I’m not willing to travel or spend the money, then it isn’t their fault. In my case, it is MY choice to not travel or spend the money. Now, obviously, some people don’t have the choices I have. For many people, I know, that they can’t buy concert tickets because it means that they won’t have money for necessary items like groceries. I also know that there are people who can’t drive distances for whatever reason. Yet, some people might be able to sacrifice one thing or another to get to a concert. If those people go or don’t, it is about choices. They choose to go or not. They aren’t forced one way or another and I respect whatever choices they make.
Tours or concerts will never be perfect. Duran won’t always play where you want them to play. They won’t always play when you want them to play. The ticket price will never be what any of us wants. I recognize this. I accept it. This fall tour isn’t want I really want it to be, in terms of dates, locations, etc. That said, I accept that it is what it is and I’m willing to make the choices and sacrifices necessary in order to get to at least one show. In the back of my mind, I now know that every show, every tour could be the last. I can’t wait for them to come back. I can’t wait for 2012. This could be it so I will do what must be done, at least once.